Always be Polite
Even if you don't like someone, there is no need to lower yourself to their level. Be polite and courteous; show that you are the Better person.
Do Not Curse
Swearing is a big no-no. It shows that you don't have the vocabulary to express your thoughts appropriately. Furthermore, it is always very crude and impolite to be vulgar.
Do Not Speak Loudly
When we speak loudly, it raises the stress level among company. It always implies that you can't reason with people and rely on "Brute Force" to get your point across. It also draws attention - Negative Attention.
Do Not Lose Your Temper
When you loose your temper, you are showing everyone that you can't control your emotions. If you can't control yourself, then how you possibly control anything else? Keep your cool at all times (It won't be easy but it is worth the effort) and people will take positive note of your level headedness.
Do Not Stare
Ogling someone is the equivalent of psychological aggression. You don't want to intimidate people for no reason.
Do Not Interrupt
Let people finish what they are saying before adding your comments. Interrupting others is a sign of poor etiquette and a lack of social skills. If you want to come across as egotistical, you can do so by constantly interrupting.
Do Not Spit
A lot of men do this almost subconsciously. Spitting is very crude and not too pretty to look at. Do not spit in public unless you want to look like you were raised in a sewer.
Respect Your Elders
In fact, you should respect others as you would like them to respect you. I am specifying elders because it seems that today, young men think they know it all. Well, they don't. Just think of yourself five yours ago...you are much smarter and experienced today, aren't you? Of course, yet you thought you knew it all five yours ago.
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Published by Jaydeep Patil on December 9, 2005 05:22 AM
