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How Do You Choose the Best Cooking School or Culinary Arts College?

Posted on Jun 23, 2008 at 09:09 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

There are several steps that are important in choosing a cooking school or a culinary arts college. It is important to consider all of the steps to save both time and most important, money. The choices you make up front will lend themselves to a much more rewarding experience. How do you choose the best cooking school or culinary arts college?

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What Kinds of Jobs Are There With Nascar?

Posted on Jun 12, 2008 at 09:53 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

If you are interested in the exciting world of race cars, perhaps you may be asking the question: "what kinds of jobs are there with Nascar"? There are many types of positions that are available that might be of potential interest to you. The world of Nascar does seem so glamorous and in many ways it is. On the other hand, it is important to also consider that when you find a position that you like within Nascar you will need to be prepared to be on the road constantly if you are an immediate part of the team and away from your home most of the time if you work directly with the race car drivers themselves. The first and most obvious answer to the question "what kinds of jobs are there with Nascar" would be a race car driver. Becoming a race car driver, however, is a dream only obtainable by a few.

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Moon Palace Resort - How to Get a Great Discount

Posted on Jun 12, 2008 at 09:28 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

[Moon Palace Resort in Cancun Mexico] is a five star resort that offers just about anything a family could want. The only thing that an inexperienced vacationer to Mexico might not like is the price. Although very reasonable for what you get, most are shocked initially at how much an all inclusive stay at the Moon Palace Resort can cost. It is a steep price to pay but well worth saving for. Is there any way to get a great discount at a five star resort like Moon Palace? The answer is YES!

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Ensure the Safety of Your Kids with Big Baby Car

Posted on Jun 10, 2008 at 07:07 PM by Rob Bernabe | Comments (0)

Traveling has become an inevitable part of human civilization. People travel from one place to another. Under such circumstances, babies also become a part of these travels. Little babies will travel with their mothers to supermarkets or any random destination. The seat belt of a common vehicle is not well suited to protect a baby. Special safety seats are required to protect the infants.

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The Senseless Death of Adam Dunn Age 18 - Latrobe PA

Posted on Jun 7, 2008 at 01:35 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

Adam Dunn, so young, died tragically on December 23, 2007. The people who did this have still not been brought to justice. Everyday those of us who have been left behind have to live with the sadness that Adam is no longer in our lives and the disbelief that nothing has been done yet to solve this case. We could possibly understand if it made any sense, but the whole incident made no sense whatsoever.

It was a tragedy that never had to happen. The men who ran Adam and George over had plenty of time to see them, had plenty of time to stop, and had a birm where they could have driven onto if they were out of control. Even after the first vehicle hit George, why did the second car come along and hit Adam and then hit George again? Was the person in the second car completely oblivious to what had just happened? Didn't they see that the first truck had already hit someone? If they did see it, what would cause them to not get out of the way? Senseless. No answers. Frustration abounds. Justice has not been served. "Vengence is mine says the Lord". Sometimes, deep in our hearts, that is a very hard verse to swallow. God demands forgiveness and sometimes we just have to pray that God will soften our hearts toward these types of people who seem to have no regard for life. Each of us has to deal with this tragedy in his or her own way. Perhaps this article will serve to help put life in perspective and not take those we love for granted. Hopefully it will bring to light an urgent need for each of us to value each other every moment of the day. In memory of Adam Dunn.

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Is Your Dog Food Killing Your Dog? You Must Watch the Video.

Posted on May 15, 2008 at 03:53 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

When I read the headline "Is Your Dog Food Killing Your Dog?" I was just curious at first. I surely didn't think I was doing anything to risk the life of my own dog. After all, I was feeding my dog the food my own vet had recommended. I had asked him. "what is the best dog food"? and he gave me his best professional opinion. I know he wasn't trying to hurt my dog. After watching the video, I learned that my own vet had been duped.

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BPA Free Sippy Cups - Bisphenol A Free Sippy Cups

Posted on May 8, 2008 at 07:06 AM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

(Bisphenol A Free) are all the rage today. Sippy cups that parents have used for years are being replaced by the newer plastics that do not contain the chemical bisphenol A. There are many controversies as to what actual harm bisphenol A can cause, or for that matter, why a [BPA free sippy cup] is really any better, but some parents would prefer to take precautions once they have read the controversial information.

Regardless, there is one brand of sippy cup that has been BPA free since it was manufactured many years ago by the Luv n Care Company in Monroe, Louisiana. The cup is the Nuby 10 oz. no drip, no spill sippy cup. For all of the moms and dads and grandparents who are concerned, please rest assured that the manufacturer of the world's leading Nuby Sippy Cup (10 oz) is now actively advertising and promoting the fact that their 10 oz sippy cups are and always have been [bisphenol A free sippy cups] aka [BPA free].

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Meeting The Challenges Of Raising Children

Posted on May 2, 2008 at 02:23 AM by Teresita C. Tayanes | Comments (0)

Parenting is both a never-ending process and a journey. Fathers are working hard to provide for the needs of their offspring. Most mothers are placing their dreams and other career options on the back burner in favor of raising children. Yet some parents find their labors futile, while others are more fortunate enough to watch their kids strengthen their "roots" and grew up with sturdy "wings."

American physician and researcher Jonas Salk once said : "Good parents give their children roots and wings. Roots to know where home is and wings to fly away and exercise what's been taught them." This is what every parent hopes for their children. To enable them to firmly establish their roots while they are young and strengthen their wings to enable them to fly when the time comes.

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Mothering Styles, Which One Are You?

Posted on Apr 30, 2008 at 03:17 AM by Teresita C. Tayanes | Comments (0)


We often hear the expression "Like mother, like daughter." The expression, more than we might care to accept or understand, says a lot between the children and the women who brought them into this world, the mothers. This holds true not only for daughters but for sons as well.

Dr. Stephan Poulter, popular psychologist and author of the book "The Mother Factor : How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life" talks about how strongly our mother influence the children or how mom's legacy affects them. Here's the five types of mothering styles Poulter discusses in his book :

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Mothering Styles, Which One Are You?

Posted on Apr 30, 2008 at 03:17 AM by Teresita C. Tayanes | Comments (0)


We often hear the expression "Like mother, like daughter." The expression, more than we might care to accept or understand, says a lot between the children and the women who brought them into this world, the mothers. This holds true not only for daughters but for sons as well.

Dr. Stephan Poulter, popular psychologist and author of the book "The Mother Factor : How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life" talks about how strongly our mother influence the children or how mom's legacy affects them. Here's the five types of mothering styles Poulter discusses in his book :

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Tips On Choosing Fertility Clinics

Posted on Apr 16, 2008 at 03:11 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Reproductive health is extremely important to most people and it is especially distressful when something goes wrong, like being unable to reproduce naturally. Fertility clinics are places that help people who are in need of answers as to why they are not able to conceive a child through sexual intercourse. These clinics are staffed with doctors who can conduct tests to track down the source of the problem and help infertile couples or individuals reach their goal of getting pregnant.

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How The Computer Age Is Affecting Your Child's Development

Posted on Apr 14, 2008 at 02:16 AM by Teresita C. Tayanes | Comments (0)

A study on the effects of the digital age on child development has shown many potential computer-related health concerns that parents need to look out for. Among them are vision problems, seizures, hand injuries and other musco-skeletal complaints.

Dr. Emma Conception Liwag, author of the study said computers can have a negative impact on a child's vision. Her paper says that in Taiwan, the number of first-graders with myopia has increased from 12.1 percent to 20.4 percent since 1995. In Singapore, a similar study found that in three years, the number of 7- to -9-year-old with myopia had doubled to 34 percent. It is the many hours that children spend in front of the computer that strains the young eyes, Liwag says. Computer use demands fine motor skills and a child's young eyes are not yet as well developed to handle the stress of a computer on that system, she added.

Another negative impact the paper cited is, children who spend too many hours on the computer are also more prone to back pains. She cited a 2002 study by Jacobs and Baker that says 40 percent of middle school students report musculoskeletal pain ( e.g., strains in back, neck, shoulders, arms and wrists, carpal tunnel syndrome) related to using computers. What alarms Liwag more, aside from the eyes, back and musco-skeletal problems, is the displacement of normal physical activities and the rise of obese children. "We are having more obese children because of this dilemna," she said.

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What Acne Treatment Works? Find the Answer Here

Posted on Apr 12, 2008 at 08:28 AM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

What acne treatment works? All or none. When it comes to answering the question of what acne treatment works, there can be no definitive answer. However, there is new information on the market that will allow you to discover how to clear up your acne in 3 days. They are so sure of their success that they offer a money back guarantee. You can click here to find out more. The amazing part about this information is that the testimonials will tell you that by applying what they were told to do, the treatement did begin to work in 3 days, but for some it took a little bit longer. The secret to their success was that they kept applying the methods and eventually their acne did clear up.

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Tips For Effective Parenting

Posted on Apr 4, 2008 at 12:15 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

People are always looking for help in terms of effective parenting. Parents will always want to be better as parents, feeling that they always come up short in many departments. Most parents will search for their entire lives for tips and hints in terms of effective parenting, never fully reaching their potential. This, of course, references the notion in many parents that they will never live up to their own parents and that the expectations they have for themselves may be unrealistic.

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Fertility Issues - Attempting To Achieve Conception

Posted on Mar 27, 2008 at 05:16 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Conception often occurs through sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, many couples experience problems due to reproductive issues or timing problems. As a result, they have difficulty achieving conception. With today's technology, however, clinics and fertility specialists can offer a variety of methods and treatments to help couples increase fertility and improve their chances for conception. Where these types of issues were once hopeless, only a very small percentage of couple are unable to concieve in today's world.

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How Do I Find the Top Culinary Arts Schools / Top Culinary Arts Colleges?

Posted on Mar 19, 2008 at 11:10 AM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

If you are thinking of attending a top culinary arts college you need to plan ahead while in high school. Culinary arts is becoming very popular and there are still many jobs to be found, however, to become a leader in the culinary arts field, post secondary education is required. There are certain steps you must follow to become successful.

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Discount Offers for Baby Boomers - How to Save HUGE Money on Your Everyday Purchases

Posted on Mar 15, 2008 at 10:14 AM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

Attention Baby Boomers! Do you know that just by joining one very low cost membership you can find millions of items at deep discounts everyday? In this article, discount offers for baby boomers - how to save huge money on your everyday purchases, you will find out the source of these amazing discounts. Wait till you see the items that are offered. You won't believe how much money you can save!

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Maternity Fitness Clothing

Posted on Mar 12, 2008 at 09:23 AM by Rob Bernabe | Comments (0)

At one time there was the misconception that women should not do much during a pregnancy. Expectant moms were expected to sit back and relax as much as possible for their nine months. Research has shown that women that maintain a supervised fitness program during their pregnancies often have easier pregnancies and deliveries. There are several things to keep in mind when purchasing maternity fitness clothing.

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Maternity Resale Clothing

Posted on Mar 8, 2008 at 08:50 AM by Rob Bernabe | Comments (0)

Maternity resale clothing is a great way to pick up some beautiful clothing pieces or even to sell the ones that you are no longer wearing. There are two options for maternity resale clothing to consider. One place you can do this is through maternity consignment shops in your community. Another place is to resale the clothing on auctions on the Internet. Both are a great way to recycle maternity clothing so that other women can wear the same pieces.

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About Using A Child Adoption Agency

Posted on Mar 6, 2008 at 07:01 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

It seems that as people get older and wait to have children, more couples are finding themselves facing the option of adopting. This can be a huge ordeal if you do not know what to do or what the process is that involves making a child your own. A child adoption agency can alleviate the guess work. They also have experience in foreign adoptions, such as an Africa adoption process, if you are interested in rescuing a child from another country.

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How Does a Mom Get Started Working On Ebay

Posted on Feb 29, 2008 at 10:54 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

How Does a Mom Get Started Working on Ebay? It's very very simple. Step One: Get Educated. Yes, do it right from day one. How do you get educated? Learn from someone who started just like you and now made it big on Ebay. Tom Barnes will show you in baby steps how a mom can get started working on Ebay the same day. For more information on the NUMBER ONE BEST SELLING EBAY BOOK, please see the click here link at the end of the article.

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How To Get Started On Ebay

Posted on Feb 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM by Margaret Dunn | Comments (0)

Have you ever wondered "how to get started on Ebay"? I did and after dabbling on Ebay for a year, I decided to put Ebay to the test. I took the plunge so to speak and instead of just buying products, started selling. Now I am doing it right because I read the number one best selling Ebay book, "Ebay Fortune. The Definitive Roadmap to Auction Riches"

If you want to do it right from day one, this is information that you must have to succeed. The book is written by a wildly successful Ebay Powerseller, Tom Barnes. He has earned the right to show me how to succeed and he can do the same for you. He will show you in clear, plain English, how to get started on Ebay the RIGHT way. Please see the link at the end of the article to find out more about the NUMBER ONE EBAY INFORMATION BOOK on the internet today. You will save yourself so much time and money and you will be able to get started in this amazing work at home opportunity right away.

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Ideas on Baby Car Seat Covers

Posted on Feb 28, 2008 at 06:55 PM by Rob Bernabe | Comments (0)

One of the pieces of equipment that you will become very familiar with when you have small children is baby car seats. There are many styles, models and types of baby car seats available and baby car seat covers can be very important. There are many advantages to using baby car seat covers.

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Yoga For Pregnant Women

Posted on Feb 20, 2008 at 01:22 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

There are many reasons to take a yoga class, but the main one for most Americans is to find relaxation and improve health -- not just muscular, but cardiovascular and mental health as well. Yoga for pregnant women can make all the difference in the mother's mindset. When combating fatigue, weight gain, tenderness, swelling, mood swings, cravings, constipation, leg cramps and headaches, yoga practice can be the only respite.

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Leather Baby Car Seats

Posted on Feb 19, 2008 at 12:38 PM by Rob Bernabe | Comments (0)

Many parents like leather baby car seats. They match the interior of the car and compliment the leather seats of the family auto. There are many different models and types of leather car seats so it makes your choices less difficult in selecting the one that best fits your car interior. Many parents like the look of leather baby car seats and find that they are well worth the investment.

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Student Loan Tips - What You Need To Know Before Applying For A Credit Card

Posted on Feb 17, 2008 at 06:15 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

College students are constantly feeling the pressure of credit card companies vying for their business and wanting them to apply for a credit card. MasterCard or Visa credit cards are all around and continuously try to offer incentives for students so they will sign up. They want you to save your cash and instead use their plastic for your school purchases, but far too many students find out too late how quickly this can become a bog of quicksand.

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Is Your Child At Risk For Identity Theft?

Posted on Jan 7, 2008 at 10:26 PM by TJ Nelson | Comments (0)

There is a lot of talk about identity theft in the media today but few are reporting on the fastest growing demographic of identity theft victims, children. Children are at particular risk for identity theft due to the fact that they receive a valid social security number at birth and few families bother to monitor their children's credit reports since they assume there's nothing to monitor. Years later when the child reaches adulthood and attempts to buy a car or get a credit card, the fraud is noticed and the application is declined. What follows this event is a desperate and often futile attempt to clear the credit record so the young adult can get on with their life. This article will discus this phenomenon in more detail and review some simple steps you can take to protect your child from identity theft.

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Learn Parenting Skills

Posted on Dec 21, 2007 at 11:17 AM by Joseph Then | Comments (0)

If you are a parent, it is important to know some basic parenting skills so that it can help make your parenting job a little easier. I list 3 of the important parenting skills you will need to raise a child. While there are many skills to learn I believe that they are the 3 most important ones.

(Note: If you are a single parent, you can check this out for more single parenting advice)

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Using Antidepressants During Pregnancy

Posted on Dec 16, 2007 at 05:58 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Depression is a common illness in women and seems to strike about one in ten females at some point in their life, if not more (some depressions go unreported or ease on their own over time). There's no good time for depression to occur, and one large dilemma that faces women is having a depression and becoming pregnant or being diagnosed during a pregnancy. Women are constantly cautioned against taking medication while they are expecting, but depression is a serious illness that sometimes requires prescription anti-depressants. Not only that, the information about the effects of anti-depressants on unborn babies hasn't been confirmed and researchers are still studying the matter.

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Baby Potties Make Great Baby Christmas Gifts

Posted on Dec 16, 2007 at 05:53 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Baby potties are a necessity, and something we probably don't think about until it's time to get one. Finding the right potty can make all the difference in the world when it is time to start training a toddler out of diapers. If you have the wrong potty, it could actually make matters much more difficult than they need to be and cause you and your child a lot of needless frustration.

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An Overview Of Language Based Learning Disabilities

Posted on Dec 13, 2007 at 05:54 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Learning disabilities fall into two major types. The first is non-verbal, which includes disabilities from psychomotor difficulties to dyscalculia. The other type is language based. Language based learning disabilities include any disabilities that affect language, from trouble distinguishing letters to difficulty in reading comprehension.

Dyslexia is probably the most well known language based learning disability, and may be the most common. However, dyslexia is not the only learning disability based on language. Often dyslexia is a part of a larger learning disability.

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How To Tell If Your Toddler Is Being Bullied

Posted on Dec 9, 2007 at 06:09 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

When you send your toddler off to pre-school or on a play date with a friend, the last thing on your mind is that something might go wrong. While you are out running your daily errands or simply enjoying a little well-earned spare, there is a possibility that your toddler could be threatened with physical and/or emotional harm in your absence. Would you know the many signs that would indicate that all is not well?

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Breastfeeding Benefits - The Funny Side

Posted on Dec 8, 2007 at 08:10 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

The benefits of breastfeeding your baby are often disputed among breastfeeding advocates and mothers who choose the bottle over the breast. Many of the benefits of breastfeeding can be duplicated by bottle feeding mothers and it really boils down to a matter of personal choice. Those who bottle feed their babies choose to avoid some of the unpleasant experiences that came with choosing to breastfeed an infant. In an effort to lighten the serious battle between the bottle and the breast, let's take a look at some of the humorous benefits of breastfeeding.

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3 Habits of Parents that Ruins Communication

Posted on Dec 7, 2007 at 10:19 PM by Katy | Comments (0)

Parents often say that their teens are shutting them out of their lives. Their teens can talk for hours with their friends but have few words for their parents. Their teens turn to other adults for counsel but hesitate to approach their own parents for help.

Where is the problem here? We have to begin by first taking a look at the way we talk to our teens. Have we as parents gotten into the habit of these 3 destructive communication patterns that in communicating with our teens?

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Having Your Baby Gifts Personalized Makes The Gift More Special

Posted on Dec 7, 2007 at 08:24 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

If you want to make a special gift even more endearing, try having your baby gifts personalized. Traditional items, such as silver baby spoons and bronzed baby shoes are commonly engraved with the baby's name and date of birth, but there are other items, such as blankets, pillows, and frames that can be personalized as well. When you think about it, anything can be personalized, even the furniture! The only limitation is your imagination.

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10 Ideas for a Rainy Day

Posted on Dec 5, 2007 at 11:49 PM by Katy | Comments (0)

Is the rainy or snowy weather getting you down?

Are the kids cooped up all day and you are getting cabin fever?

You don't want the kids to play electronic games all day. And you definitely don't want them to sit in front of the TV. Reading a book for 8 hours straight is just not going to happen.

Without a plan, the kids will inevitably end up fighting, destroying each other or the house!

Here are 10 ideas to keep the kids occupied for a while:

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Using Vitamins To Boost Your Child's Health

Posted on Dec 5, 2007 at 09:32 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

For many parents, getting their children to eat a wide variety of healthy, vitamin-rich foods is almost impossible and you may need to give them a health vitamin supplement. If your kids won't touch anything but macaroni and cheese, it takes a little more effort to make sure that they're not missing out on important nutrients.

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The Power of a Parent

Posted on Dec 3, 2007 at 11:59 AM by Katy | Comments (0)

My 70-year-old mother-in-law once related to me a story about her husband's childhood. When Paul was about ten years old, his father promised to buy him a new bicycle. He used to walk to school and a bike was something he really wanted. He excitedly looked forward to getting the bike all week. When the end of the week came, there was no bike. His mother disapproved the purchase and the father could not go against his wife's wishes.

The painful experience of a broken promise is not easily forgotten. As with my father-in-law, the aching memory stayed with him for many decades.

It is sobering to think that we as parents have such power over our children. What we say and how we act can literally affect our children for a lifetime. While there are no perfect parents and we will all make mistakes, here are a few suggestions for what we can do to make sure we do our best in minimizing undue pain for our children.

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It is More Blessed to Give...

Posted on Nov 28, 2007 at 03:07 PM by Katy | Comments (0)

Ask any child to tell you the best thing about Christmas, and what do you think he will say?

"Presents!"

While we want to teach our children that Christmas is not all about getting presents, perhaps we've inadvertently conditioned our children to think that it is about the presents! That pile of wrapped boxes under the Christmas tree builds the anticipation of opening presents on Christmas day. The Christmas stockings hang empty for weeks on the mantle in hopes of being filled with presents by Santa. Aunts and uncles ask for wish lists; gift ideas are plastered on every form of media. Despite what we say, presents are viewed as the highlight of Christmas.

While getting presents is certainly a fun part of Christmas, most parents do not really want to feed the greed in our children. Parents ask, "How can I get my children to be more grateful for what they have?" "How do I teach my children to think about giving instead of always think about getting?"

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How to Help Children Cope With the Loss of a Pet

Posted on Nov 26, 2007 at 01:53 PM by Lisa J. Lehr | Comments (0)

Pets are an important part of most American families these days. Many people--myself included--believe that a family without pets is incomplete, and a childhood without the experience of raising pets is not as happy as it should be.

That experience, though, almost invariably includes the death of a pet. It's a fact that people outlive most types of pets, and almost all children who have a pet will, at some point, lose one. As difficult as it is for the kids--not to mention for the parents who must explain "died"--it's an important life lesson.

Sadly, some parents try to spare their kids the pain of losing a pet by making up a story. This "story" is used to cover two different scenarios: when the pet is known to be dead, and the parents have discreetly disposed of the body; and when a pet has disappeared, its fate unknown. Bad things sometimes happen when pets go outdoors, and sometimes old or ill pets will go away to die alone.

While beliefs about the afterlife, and where pets "go" when they die, may differ from family to family, and parents are entitled to some leeway when it comes to this question, one story that should never be offered is that the pet "ran away."

Think about it. Death, as difficult as it is, is final. It offers closure. It's part of the denial, anger, acceptance cycle that the experts say we go through in loss. "The pet ran away" leaves kids vulnerable to false hopes and endless, unresolved speculation about what might have happened to the pet.

Why doesn't he come home? Doesn't she love us anymore? Is he hurt? Is someone keeping her captive? Did he find someone else he likes better? Why? Is my doggy or kitty ever coming home? Shouldn't we be trying to find him? Why aren't Mom and Dad as anxious to find her as I am?

Until one day, when the child is old enough to figure it out--or enough years have gone by that the pet couldn't possibly be still alive, and the child gives up hoping. But there's no real closure. And that spoils the memory of the relationship they had.

Parents, that's cruel. Horribly, inexcusably, avoidably cruel.

As an animal shelter volunteer, I hear this often, from the lips of children shopping for a new pet: "We want a new dog/cat because our other dog/cat ran away." Please, people. Pets do not run away. Most pets will actually take a considerable amount of abuse before leaving to seek a new home.

(Although, if your pet is young or very outgoing, it is possible that he has been "adopted" by some kind person who thought he was a stray. If this is the case, you should be able to get your pet back by posting "Lost Pet" fliers around your neighborhood. Plenty of resources are available for recovering lost pets.)

While we don't want to upset children with the gory details of what might have occurred--"He probably got hit by a car/kidnapped by an evil person/killed for food or sport by another animal"--the simple truth that the pet has died is far preferable to the lie that it "ran away."

And if that weren't bad enough, the pattern tends to be repeated. You'd think that a person who had this false reality foisted upon him or her as a child would be eager to never do the same to his or her own child. But that's often not the case, because people who grow up having never learned how to talk about death will tend to tell the same story to their children: "The pet ran away."

Another thing to keep in mind is that if a child experiences the death of a pet before that of an important person (a grandparent, for example), he or she is better prepared for this bigger loss. Interfering with this natural life lesson will only make the harder lessons harder.

Here are some ideas for helping kids cope with the death of a pet:

--Hold a funeral. If it's a small pet, bury it in your yard. If it's a large pet (or if it's deep winter and the ground is frozen), you may need to have him or her "cared for" by your veterinarian. If the pet has gone missing and there is no body, have a service anyway. Place a memorial marker in your yard. Let each child say something about the pet. Pray if it's appropriate to your belief system.

-- Make a memory book. Include pictures of the pet, her tags and other mementos. Let the children contribute drawings, poems, or stories about the pet's life.

--Display pictures of the pet around the house to assure the kids that the pet hasn't been forgotten.

--Encourage children to talk about the deceased pet. Never suggest that they "get over it" or forget about it.

--Wait a while before getting a new pet. The child may not be ready to transfer his or her affections, and may even resent the new pet for not "being" the old pet.

So, I beg of you, never, ever tell a child that a pet ran away. (Unless you're certain it did.) Say it: Fido or Fluffy or Buddy or Tinkerbell died. Died. Went to doggy or kitty Heaven, crossed the Rainbow Bridge, returned to Mother Earth--whatever fits with your beliefs. But don't say it ran away. Ever. Please.

What Parents And Teachers Should Know About Children With Learning Disabilities

Posted on Nov 25, 2007 at 06:03 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Children with learning disabilities who have difficulty with certain tasks often feel frustrated and stupid. These feelings can lead to a low self-esteem. If children are teased and taunted by their peers, these feelings can be worsened. Although parents may be relieved by the understanding that a learning disability diagnosis can bring, children with learning disabilities may be afraid of the diagnosis and become even more isolated. There is also the possibility that the child may begin to use the diagnosis as a crutch to excuse behavior problems and poor performance.

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10 tips for making your family Christmas special

Posted on Nov 21, 2007 at 01:26 PM by Sherrie Le Masurier

Christmas is such a special time of year and a great opportunity for family togetherness. Making your family Christmas special is about keeping the best interest of your child or children in mind.

Following are some tips I've discovered over the years that have helped create fond Christmas memories and teach my children the value of giving to others.

Don't Overwhelm With Presents
Although preschoolers are usually not old enough to demand long lists of gifts they can become overwhelmed by the sure volume of the gifts they receive. While it's fun to watch kid's expressions as they open their gifts, its always good to avoid giving the impression the holidays are a time of unrestrained excess.

Avoid Traps
Don't fall into the trap of saying, "If you're good, you'll get this" or "If you misbehave, you won't get that." Avoid adding extra conditions just because it's the holidays and there are more special things happening.

Open A Parent Store
Have your children shop at home using play money at the parent store. Pick up inexpensive gifts at yard sales e.g. 5 to 50 cent items. During the holiday season have your kids do special chores in exchange for play money. Days before Christmas set up a parent store, displaying gifts you have pre-selected for one child at a time. Kids enjoy earning and giving gifts to siblings and relatives.

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So Your Toddler Wants A Pet?

Posted on Nov 21, 2007 at 06:20 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

"Hey mom! Look what followed me home! Can we keep him?" Kids see pets everywhere... at playgrounds, on television, in picture books and mall pet shops. There are more animals with pet potential than you can shake a stick at. Sooner or later, your toddler's going to ask that one thing that all kids ask their parents at one point or another, "Mommy? Can I have a...?"

Child development experts have long believed that children should have exposure to household pet companions. Having a pet has many advantages:

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Like To Read But Don't Have The Time?

Posted on Nov 20, 2007 at 08:28 AM by Tommy Bradshaw | Comments (0)

Like To Read But Don't Have The Time?

Audio Books can be the solution!

We have a lot to be grateful for when talking about technology.

Who would have ever believed that not only would we cut down on the way we use up our vegetation for making hardcover and paperback books, we would also be able to "listen" to our books instead of "reading" them.

Ironic? Not with the introduction of audio books.

With audio books, we now have the unique advantage of doing other things that take up our hands, but not our minds. We can now do other things like household chores, exercising, driving or riding in a vehicle, etc while still having the book read to us.

There are several ways you can listen to an audio book: on your PC, iPod, MP3, download to a cd and play in your car or other types of sound systems that support the playing devices.

More people are embracing the wonders of audio books and are buying their favorite books in audio book version.

If you are considering buying an audio book, below are a few of many favorite places you can enjoy your new found treasure.

1--In bed - There are certain days when we just don't want to do anything but lie down in bed thinking of certain issues. Or we could just want to lie down in the dark until we fall asleep.

This is a great time to listen to an audio book. You wouldn't have to bother with turning on the lights, holding the book, flipping through the pages or the stress of reading the book itself.

With an audio book, the entire book will be read to you while you stay comfortable in bed - without flipping any pages, holding the book or turning on the lights.

2--In the kitchen while doing household chores such as washing the dishes or cooking. For some people it can be very boring and tasking being in the kitchen, especially washing the dishes.

This is a great time to enjoy an audio book because your hands are busy but your mind is free.

Instead of feeding your mind with negative thoughts, an audio book would be a wonderful alternative.

3--In the garden while gardening - You can also listen to audio books while gardening. The audio book can make the gardening fun because you would be concentrating on the enjoyment of the audio book and not on the difficulty of gardening.

4--While exercising such as walking, jogging or even running - Exercising such as walking leaves your mind open but your hands, legs and even your entire body busy. This is a great time to enjoy an audio book.

Most people perform exercises for many minutes or even hours while their minds do nothing. But listening to an audio book during this time ensures you don't waste those times when you exercise.

Talk about killing 2 birds with one stone - exercising your body and mind at the same time!

5--On the road commuting - This could either be in your personal car or a commercial bus or train ride to work. You see, many people lose a great deal of time doing nothing while commuting to and from their jobs.

Why not use that time to listen to an audio book, especially one that develops your mind and/or improves your professional and business skills?

For example, listening to an audio book that improves your skills daily can do a lot of good to your career, instead of listening to a musical song which wouldn't help you much in the area of skill acquisition.

6--In the air while traveling - You wouldn't believe it, but there are many people who spend more time in the air than on road. There are professional assignments that involve traveling from one state to the other, or even from one country to the other.

If you are in such a situation, consider the enormous benefits you would get listening to audio books, especially those that can improve your professional or personal skills.

Yes, there are many audio book courses made specifically for professional and personal improvements,
and thousands upon thousands for your own personal enjoyment.

Have fun listening.

T.E. Bradshaw

Teaching Kids Responsibility for Pets

Posted on Nov 19, 2007 at 11:38 AM by Lisa J. Lehr | Comments (0)

America is a country of pet lovers. Consider:

--Currently, the combined total of cats and dogs is more than one for every two people.

--We spend billions and billions of dollars annually on pet care.

--More people are choosing a place to live based on a city's pet-friendliness, and more landlords are allowing their tenants to have pets.

For many families in pet-loving North America, raising pets while we're raising kids is an arrangement that benefits all three parts of the equation: pets, kids, and parents.

The pet. Obviously, if you adopt a pet from an animal shelter, a classified ad, or a rescue group--as opposed to a breeder--you're saving a life and providing that animal with a standard of living almost certainly better than the one you rescued it from. If you're set on getting a purebred dog or cat from a breeder, however, choose your breeder carefully. Irresponsible breeding practices and sub-optimal kennel conditions inflict untold misery on countless pets, and we don't want to support these businesses in any way.

The kids. Kids are instinctively drawn to animals; you can see this any time you take a kid to a zoo, a pet shop, or a farm. A child's first words often include "doggy" and "kitty." Kids also like having a family member who's lower in the "pecking order" than they are, and they enjoy the companionship and undivided attention that only a pet can provide.

The parents. Pets provide company and comfort when parents aren't available; just watch a little boy or girl tell his or her pet their deepest secrets or their latest adventure while the pet sits enraptured. Both benefit from the nonjudgmental and undivided attention. Further, kids learn responsibility from participating in pet care. They experience first-hand that the pet must be fed, exercised, and provided with a place to sleep; must be taken to the doctor when sick; and must be cared for by someone else while the family is busy or away. Especially for children who don't have significantly younger siblings, pet ownership is an opportunity for parents to model nurturing.

But--and here's the caveat--the kids' responsibility as pet caretakers is limited. Kids are kids, not adults; they are not ultimately accountable for the wellbeing of the family's pets. A toy can, to an extent, be used to teach responsible behavior by natural consequences: if they don't take care of it, they will lose it. Leave your tools outside and they get rusty; leave your bike unlocked and it gets stolen. Leave your Barbies and Legos on the floor and they get stepped on by people and chewed on by pets. Want a new one? Earn it. Theoretically, at least, kids learn to take care of their "things."

A dog, cat, or other animal, however, is not a thing; it is a living creature. If you don't feed it, it will be miserable and eventually die. And while a hungry dog or cat or even bird may make itself hard to ignore, fish, turtles, reptiles, and such are easier to neglect. But their suffering and death are real. The situation is often made worse when a guilt-stricken parent, seeking to console a grieving child, will hurry to replace a deceased pet with a new, similar one. It may make the child feel better in the short term, but it won't teach him or her the tragic consequences of neglecting a pet.

Attention, parents: please think long and hard before getting your child a pet. Resist the temptation to put that adorable puppy or kitten under the Christmas tree, or the ducky or bunny in the Easter basket. The excitement of the new plaything fades quickly; the sincere promise to feed and care for the pet every day forever is quickly forgotten. Kids are kids. You, Mom or Dad, are the responsible person here. Are you prepared to care for the pet if your child can't or won't? If you can't honestly answer "yes" to that question, do that cute kitty or nice doggy a favor and leave him or her at the shelter.

Many people (myself included) feel that a family without pets is incomplete. But a family with pets isn't teaching the right lesson about family unless it's a family with cared-for pets.

Some Information About Alcohol And Pregnancy

Posted on Nov 18, 2007 at 02:35 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

The information out there on pregnancy and having a glass of wine or a beer is convoluted and a woman wanting to know if she can enjoy the occasional glass of alcohol may have trouble pinning the answer down to a definite yes or no. Alcohol and pregnancy does remain a matter of your own choice and decision, but there are some facts that can help you be informed about the results and consequences of that glass of wine and what the limits to drinking during pregnancy are.

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Baby Gifts - A Look At Some Of The Hottest Trends

Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 05:57 PM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Baby gifts given at a baby shower are as much for the baby as they are gifts for the parents. A baby shower is traditionally an event held for the mother-to-be. Close friends and family host a party where the guests bring useful items or needed objects. Some of these gifts are practical and meant to help make sure the young mother has everything for the new arrival.

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Parents Already Work At Home

Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 02:05 AM by Teresa A Harr-Pena | Comments (0)

Isn't it amazing how "working at home" has become so popular? I laugh out loud just
about every time I see that phrase somewhere. Have people forgotten that we have always
worked at home? You don't NEED to work outside of the house to make a good living. Society
has you believing that you do.

Nothing will make you financially secure except for good money managment skills! Your only
as wealthy as you think you are is what my parents always taught me. Keeping up with the
"John Doe's" next door isn't going to help you get to where you need to be.

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Can Hypnosis Really Help To Improve Your Life? Exploring Some Myths About Hypnosis

Posted on Nov 15, 2007 at 12:06 AM by Martin Aranovitch | Comments (0)

Hypnosis is a type of therapy that is still being scrutinized in the mental health field. According to the Mayo Clinic, hypnosis is when an individual experiences an altered state of consciousness. While under hypnosis, a person's attention is completely focused on the task at hand and this makes them more susceptible to being persuaded to rethink their actions. It can help control negative behavior and it can also help with those who wish to lose weight or quit smoking. Even though hypnotherapy is seen as being legitimate, myths still exist about this fascinating art.

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Make Thanksgiving centerpiece

Posted on Nov 5, 2007 at 01:43 AM by Florita Wilhelm | Comments (0)

Thanksgiving is not too far away, 18 days away to be exact. It's usually one of the rare occasions when family members from far away travel to join their family. A lot of people will be planning the thanksgiving meal, and all the different side dishes that will be served with the main dish which is in most american families will be the turkey and dressing.

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Quick Halloween Costume Ideas for Kids

Posted on Oct 31, 2007 at 01:00 PM by Nathalie Lussier

Did your kids pull the old "No I don't want to go trick or treating on Halloween, this year" trick on you? And did they then decide that all of their friends were going to go, and now you need to come up with the perfect Halloween costume for your kids - at the very last minute!? Well you're in luck, because this little article here is going to help you to come up with the fastest halloween costumes for kids out there! Keep reading!

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I Can't Give my Baby Cough Medicine. Now What?

Posted on Oct 29, 2007 at 11:55 AM by Sherrie Le Masurier | Comments (0)

Okay, so I can't give my baby cough medicine now that manufacturers have voluntarily agreed to pull infant cough and cold medicines from store shelves. I agree child safety is important but what do I do the next time by baby gets a cold?

According to an article written by Gordon Gibb of LawyersandSettlements.com, FDA Pediatrician Dr. Dianne Murphy said in the New York Times on October 14 that parents and caregivers should consult their pediatrician, adding that cough and cold medicines only treat the symptoms of a cough and a cold--they play no role in making the viruses go away any faster.

"Experts agree that most coughs should not be suppressed, as it is the body's natural way of clearing the lungs," writes Gibb. "A low-grade fever is a sign that the body is fighting an infection-- and the fever is one of the immune system's tools for fighting that infection."

Unless serious complications are present, many hold to the belief that a cough and a cold should just be allowed to play itself out in an infant or small child, with minimal medicinal intervention.

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How to pick baby's first halloween costume

Posted on Oct 25, 2007 at 03:15 PM by Nathalie Lussier

Every parent wants to dress up their baby for Halloween, especially if it's your baby's very first halloween ever! So how do parents go about